Success is doing what you want each day, spending your time happy in every way.
Love and relationships change, they never stay the same. It is a good sign because they need to develop and grow.
Women are the backbone of society. Some gentle, some strong, some wild, all true.
– Louise MacPherson
Photo by Louise MacPherson
Love is sharing, with boundaries.
Love is giving, with sincerity.
Love is time, with quality.
Love is good times, with bad times.
Love is family, with friends.
Love is work, with play.
Love is communication, with action.
Love is affection, with self-control.
Love is self-care, with caring for others.
Love is criticism, with constructive.
Love is fun, with responsible.
Love is patience, with understanding.
Love is happiness, with contentment.
Love is freedom, with restriction.
Love is knowing yourself, with finding yourself.
Love is sympathy, with concern.
Love is kindness, with compassion.
Love is influence, without abuse.
Love is acceptance, without judgement.
Love is healing, without pain.
Love is space, without envy.
Love is solving problems, without creating problems.
Love is everything above, without condition.
What does it mean to you?
Author: Louise MacPherson (2018)
Photo by Louise MacPherson
I have faced fear,
I have cried,
I have endured,
I have coped,
I have solved problems,
I have learned,
I have triumphed,
I am strong.
MacPherson, Louise (2017)
Photo by Louise MacPherson (Dec 2017)
What do we want out of life? What are our goals? Having the urge to do something will help us decide and start to work towards what we want. Creating positive feelings helps us start the road towards our achievements. Feelings are the first step.
Motivate ourselves into working towards our achievements and dreams. Having a reason to work towards goals and planning how to start achieving them. Planning is the second step.
Taking action in order to achieve is essential to success and getting results. Not only taking action but taking the right action to get the right results. Success depends on how much we put into what we want. We will not achieve anything until we act. Action is the third step.
Success is when we have taken the above steps and achieved what we want. This is the final step, a great feeling of accomplishment and we can reap our rewards.
If they can’t say anything that will help you grow:
End the conversation,
Accept who you are,
Believe in what you want,
Observe your own thoughts,
Visualise your dreams,
Embrace your future.
While working on my personal development I think to myself, does luck have a role to play in our success?
In my opinion, being lucky enough to be in the right place at the right time can make a difference. However, we can get plenty of opportunities being in the right place at the right time but do not do the work so we will fail. We can go through endless struggles, but through hard work we become successful. Being in the right place at the right time can make us successful more quickly, provided we work for it.
Success is about taking action. If we do not take action, we will not be successful. In order to achieve anything, we have to learn the necessary skills. Luck when taking action at the right time will increase our chances, but it does not mean that if we take action at a different time we will not achieve success. We have to become knowledgeable about our passions. Sometimes the action taken at a certain time does not give us success, but if we keep working at what we want, we will be successful, it is just a matter of time. Keep working until the right time comes along.
Being lucky enough to live a more privileged life can give us bigger opportunities and the money to work towards what we want to achieve, but again, if we do not work hard we will not achieve what we want.
Being lucky enough to have a natural positive attitude is great for success, but if we are not naturally positive, this is an area that can be worked on. Keeping positive when the right time comes will increase our chances of success, but if we do not have a positive attitude at that time, it can hold us back. Keeping a positive attitude at times of difficulty will increase our chances of success in the long run. Keep positive and things will fall into place. When we are positive this also improves our relationships with others. The way we view our situation has an impact on the outcome. Feeling sorry for ourselves does hold us back, but how well we pick ourselves up once we fall depends on our results. Sometimes it takes us many attempts at success until we achieve it.
So, I think becoming successful comes down to a variety of factors. The right time for success or we are ready for success, taking action and learning the skills to maintain our success, having the tools to succeed and a positive attitude. I do believe that the outcome of our life depends on the actions we take and the attitude we have.